About My Coaching
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THIS IS NOT SURFACE LEVEL WORK
This is a body-based, relational process for people who are ready to come back into honest relationship with themselves—their desire, their patterns, their sexuality, and their truth.
My work sits at the intersection of:
🍯 somatic (body-based) healing
🍯 intimacy and relationship work
🍯 erotic aliveness and expression
🍯 and deep self-trust
It’s for those who don’t just want to understand themselves—
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A DIFFERENT APPROACH
Many approaches focus on insight.
This work includes insight—but doesn’t stop there.We work in the body, where your patterns actually live.
Through somatic awareness, parts work, and relational exploration, we begin to:
untangle protective patterns
meet the parts of you that have been hidden, exiled, or running the show
and build a more integrated, honest internal landscape
This creates change that is not just conceptual—
but felt, embodied, and sustainable. -
DESIRE, EROS & SEXUAL SOVEREIGNTY
Desire is not a problem to fix.
It’s a compass.Part of this work includes reconnecting to your erotic aliveness—
not just sexually, but as a life force.Depending on your edges and intentions, we may explore:
🍯 your relationship to pleasure and sensation
🍯 sexual shame, numbness, or disconnection
🍯 boundaries, expression, and communication
🍯 reclaiming your body as yours
This is always approached with consent, pacing, and deep respect for your nervous system.
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RELATIONAL HEALING
Your patterns don’t exist in isolation—they show up in how you love, relate, and protect yourself.
Together, we explore your relationship to:
🍯 yourself
🍯 intimacy and partnership
🍯 conflict, communication, and vulnerability
🍯 and the wider web of life (including nature and environment)
This work supports you in creating relationships that are:
more honest, more connected, and more aligned with who you actually are. -
HOW WE WORK
Sessions are experiential, present-moment, and responsive.
We might slow down into sensation.
Track a subtle body response.
Dialogue with a part of you.
Explore a relational dynamic in real time.This is not a performance space.
You don’t need to come in with the “right words.”We work with what’s real.
With what’s alive.
(and also what’s dying)
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WHAT THIS WORK SUPPORTS
This work can be supportive if you are:
🍯 feeling disconnected from your body, desire, or aliveness
🍯 navigating relationship challenges or recurring patterns
🍯 working through shame around sexuality or expression
🍯 craving deeper self-trust and internal clarity
🍯 ready to move beyond insight into lived change
What My Clients Say:
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BUBS WILL CHANGE YOUR WORLD.
She is a loving, fun, wise, and skilled practitioner who can help guide you in the direction you want to go AND give you the tools to make a difference in your daily life. I felt very safe and secure sharing deeply personal information with her and even safer telling her about my celebrations of success. Something that is usually hard for me.
I am excited to take what I discovered and learned and go forward and build deeper and more loving relationships with myself, my parts, my family & friends, and my lovers.
Bubs is incredible and I can't recommend her highly enough to support anyone looking to grow in their ability to love and relate.
—Jamie
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I WAS LOOKING FOR A SOMATIC COACH I COULD TRUST
Who also was well educated specifically in relationships & intimacy. I had a lot of resistance to sex, specifically, in my partnership.
Bubs was able to challenge an unhelpful core belief of mine which was that, I could only experience pleasure once I moved through the pain. I learned that I could have both and that pleasure doesn’t have to be a reward. She then guided me towards grounding this belief in my body so that my whole being got on board.
I’m honored to have worked with her and I definitely recommended her support for anyone needing to move through resistance to pleasure, in relationships AND in life!
— Dana Connor, LSW: Rogue Wellness Coaching
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BUBS IS AN EMOTIONAL WIZARD
Often I would go into session not exactly knowing what to focus on and she would help me find a part of myself that wanted to be explored and developed. She has learned so much in how to hold space for uncomfortable emotions, and of course the pleasurable ones, and somatically sit with them in the body. I always walked away from those sessions amazed by what came up and how much deeper I felt connected to myself.
I highly recommend sitting with this woman in her group classes and especially 1:1 if those feel like an edge or you want to deepen connection with yourself .
— Jess
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I FELT SO SAFE AND SUPPORTED
Bubs’ presence was calm, playful, loving, questioning and inspiring!
Her ability to gently push me out my comfort zone was just what I was looking for. The guided visualization exercises were so powerful that I can still easily bring up the images well after our sessions have ended.
Definitely recommend working with Bubs if you are at any kind of crossroads in life or just looking for support in finding your own inner guidance
— JM
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BUBS IS THE REAL DEAL.
Welcoming of whatever arises, intuitive, playful, attentive, and creates a nourishing and safe container for it all!
She brings practices to help draw out, deepen, and invite you into deeper embodiment and inquiry around what might liberate you further into full expression and thriving!
I hiiiighly recommend.
—Emma
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BUBS CREATES A CALM SPACE TO EXPLORE THE INNER-SELF AND BODY
at a patient, compassionate rate, where helpful visualizations and somatic processes, create inner discoveries that lead their way towards unique and surprising transformations.
With Bubs' relaxing presence and deep listening, she provides a rewarding space to discover what it means to be alive in a body, and believe in the vibrant possibilities.
—R
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IN JUST THREE SHORT SESSIONS, MY HEART FELT MORE FULL
And I gained more confidence and self love. She opened my mind and offered various ways to tap more into my mind, heart, body and soul in ways that were more nurturing with self acceptance. I felt a big shift and had several "a-HA" moments during our chats that are still influencing my daily decisions. I am grateful for the time together and also signed up for some additional sessions.
Thank you for allowing me to be vulnerable and offering a safe, encouraging and support space to talk about some touchy topics. I appreciate you!
— Bec