Pussy Church Pleasure Coven

An in-person temple experience to return to your body, find belonging, and delight in your pleasure.

The Pussy Church Pleasure Coven was born from a deep longing to return pleasure-based ritual to the village.

There was a time when it wasn't uncommon for women to gather, learn, and share the seductive mysteries of the body, desire, and human sexuality.

Nowadays, we live in a culture that simultaneously hyper-sexualizes women while shaming the erotically liberated woman.

Our bodies have been violated, monetized, and expected to perform.

(This isn't a critique of women who sovereignly choose sex work or monetize their sexuality. This is about the patriarchal systems that commodify women's bodies without our consent.)

As a culture, we've forgotten how to honor what is our birthright.

We tend to keep our pleasure hidden—when it's literally the force waking us up to everything else.

When I say pleasure, I'm talking about far more than sexuality. I'm talking about our capacity to feel beauty, grief, delight, awe, truth, nourishment, rest, laughter, desire, sensation, and aliveness. Sexual pleasure is one expression of that life force—not the whole story.

Think about the kind of belly laughter that arrives after your deepest cry.

This isn't about bypassing. Sometimes pleasure asks us to feel the most difficult pain as fully as we can.

Pleasure has a thousand faces. Sometimes it looks like ecstasy. Sometimes it looks like relief. Sometimes it looks like finally telling the truth.

The Pussy Church Pleasure Coven is a living temple designed to support women in unwinding the shame that lives in our cells—from our own experiences, from living in patriarchy, and from the stories carried by the women who came before us.

It is a space to return to our holy, erotic, radiant, sensuous nature.

Of course, you can practice pleasure on your own.

But when women return to their pleasure bodies together, something extraordinary happens.

Goddess consciousness awakens.

We remember—not intellectually, but in our bones—that we've been here before.

When women witness and celebrate one another in their pleasure, real belonging begins.

First with ourselves.

Then with each other.

We finally know what it feels like to be at home in our bodies.

Why a monthly Devotion?

We don't unwind shame in one beautiful evening.

We don't build trust with ourselves through one breakthrough.

Transformation happens through practice.

Month after month, we choose ourselves.

We are witnessed.

We soften.

We celebrate.

Our nervous systems slowly learn that it is safe to inhabit our bodies, trust our desires, and experience the fullness of being alive.

This isn't simply a monthly gathering.

It's the slow remembering of a culture many of us have never experienced.

One where women's pleasure is ordinary. (And extraordinary!)

Where our bodies are trusted.

Where celebration is medicine.

Where belonging doesn't have to be earned.

Month by month, ritual by ritual, we become the village we've been waiting for.

This Coven might be for you if…

• You're exhausted and feel disconnected from your body and pleasure as an ally.

• You long for women's community that is embodied instead of performative.

• You crave spirituality that includes your body instead of asking you to transcend it.

• You want to deepen your relationship with pleasure—not just sexual pleasure, but aliveness itself.

• You desire ritual in your life.

• You want to harness your creative life force, expand your magic, and savor your magnificence.

Course 01

Live Rituals

Each month's ritual will center around a unique theme.

While the structure will evolve, every gathering is designed to help us arrive in our bodies, meet our wounds with compassion, unwind shame, and cultivate greater pleasure and power.

Rituals may include movement, breathwork, meditation, journaling, partnered (non-sexual) exercises, somatic practices, guided pleasure rituals, celebration, and communal witnessing.

Every evening closes with spacious time to integrate, celebrate, and simply be together.

Held at private residence in Mancos or Durango, CO

Integration Circles

Far too often we have expansive experiences only to watch them slowly fade into memory.

Real transformation happens after the ceremony.

These circles are where your ritual begins to become your life.

Think of them as ongoing support from your Pleasure Coven.

Each call offers space for sharing, coaching, guided practices, reflection, commitment-making, and gentle accountability as you continue bringing pleasure into your everyday life.

Not included with Guest Pass. Held online/Zoom

1:1 Session Support

Discover how to analyze workflows, identify inefficiencies, and implement smarter systems. This course helps you create processes that actually work, for a team or just for yourself.

Choose your participation…

The Coven

• One live Pussy Church Pleasure Coven ritual

• One online Integration Circle

$50.00/mo

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Deep Devotion

• One live Pussy Church Pleasure Coven ritual

• One online Integration Circle

• One 75-minute Private Integration Session to deepen your practice, receive personalized coaching, and integrate what is unfolding in your life.

(Consider a three-month minimum commitment to support deeper transformation.)

$200.00/mo

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Guest Witch Pass

• One live Pussy Church Pleasure Coven ritual

$45.00

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Upcoming Schedule

  • FEMININE RADIANCE

    August 21st :: Live Ritual :: 6-8:30pm :: Mancos, CO (exact address provided inside the coven)

    August 27th :: Integration Call :: 6:30-7:30pm :: on Zoom

    **call times can be adjusted to suit the majority of group needs

  • September 18th :: Live Ritual :: 6-8:30pm :: Mancos, CO (exact address provided inside the coven)

    September 24th :: Integration Call :: 6:30-7:30pm :: on Zoom

    **call times can be adjusted to suit the majority of group needs

  • October 16th :: Live Ritual :: 6-8:30pm :: Mancos, CO (exact address provided inside the coven)

    October 22nd :: Integration Call :: 6:30-7:30pm :: on Zoom

    **call times can be adjusted to suit the majority of group needs

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Meet Your Head Witch

BUBS BUSELLI

Bubs is an eco-somatic love and intimacy guide and witch.  She builds ritual spaces that undress the soul and reorient humans back home to their body, pleasure, and purpose.

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  • "If you are looking for a sexy and safe place to lay yourself down, offer yourself up to the mystery that is you, and return with an open heart and a newfound strength in your soul; seek no more! Come to Pussy Church and find God between your thighs."


    -EMS

  • "Bubs has a gift for creating spaces of possibility, opening, releasing, receiving, becoming. She has a gift for weaving a beautiful, nourishing, multi-sensory transformation portal.."

    -Angela George

  • Bubs Buselli is a top notch facilitator! Her authenticity, care, enthusiasm, and open heart made her workshop feel really natural, held, safe, and fun, even when the topic and exercises are way outside the box in terms of what our dominant culture considers acceptable. I feel grateful to have attended her Honoring Your Pleasure Vessel workshop and seeing the kind of unmasking that is possible in such a short time period with a skilled and integrated facilitator. This kind of work is so valuable and important for women today who are emerging in their power and vulnerability after generations upon generations of the sacred feminine, and our collective wild power, being subdued, hidden, oppressed and feared.

    -LR

  • "This experience has been one of the most difficult growth journeys I've ever had, and one of the most impactful experiences of my life. It pushed me in the best ways possible, and showed me so much joy, grief, freedom, and SO MUCH beauty. "

    -SB

  • "To be fully free to feel WOMAN! Feel sexy, feel seen, feel loved, feel whole again. To liberate yourself from the limiting confines the world can place on you. To unleash your wild and uninhibited self!"

    -Tsalika

  • Bubs masterfully set the space for a sex magic portal I was blessed to experience. An all gender group engaging in self pleasure together was a new experience for all of us, bringing up an array of emotions. She calmly created the container with love and clarity in her words and energy, relaxing the participants into a very safe and beautiful space. She guided us lovingly through the process with her words and the purrrfect music, inviting our sacred sexual energy from the root up into all of the chakras. The experience climaxed potently at the crown chakra with a palpable energetic orgasm in the room. It was a truly delicious experience that bonded the group in a very intimate way. Thank you Bubs for being willing to include the Men in this practice. What a joy to experience that magic! 

    -Cody Reinheimer

  • Bubs brings a kind of warm, nurturing light to the experience of discovering one's disconnection from their own body and inner power. She helped guide me along the journey back to myself throughout my time in her playshop and I left feeling attuned to my body and soul as one.

    -MS

You’ve got questions, I’ve got answers…

  • The Coven is for women, non-binary folks, and vulva owners.

    Expansive gender identities are welcome here and inclusive language will be spoken.

    Please know, the work we do together often explores the experience of being socialized as female and centers the reclamation and honoring of the feminine. If that feels aligned for you, you are warmly invited.

    And if you’re unsure whether this space is the right fit, please reach out — I’m always happy to have the conversation.

    Additionally this space welcomes and celebrates our neurospicy, different-ability, sex worker, and bipoc witches.

    What about men?

    My future vision is to cultivate enough safety and power in the feminine and an unwinding of the harmful impacts of the male gaze within the masculine to be able to hold all gender pleasure covens. May we all do the work it takes to get there.

  • You are absolutely welcome in this space! I celebrate your courage to attend, especially when this kind of practice is new to you.

    Everything is an invitation. Nothing is an expectation. And participation always happens at your own pace.

    The point is to discover and hold your own boundaries and I totally discourage anyone from crossing their own lines.

    If you desire a little extra support with landing into this kind of space, consider signing up for Deep Devotion where we will work 1:1 with your greatest needs.

  • No. You are welcome exactly as you are. Clothing, partial nudity, or nudity are all welcome. Your comfort and consent always come first.

  • No. This is a facilitated temple experience rooted in ritual, embodiment, community, and pleasure. While erotic expression is welcomed, all s3xual touch is limited to your own body.

  • The unfortunate reality is that many members of our community have. The fortunate reality is that you're not alone.

    This space is held in a trauma-informed way by someone with lived experience, and many women find that practicing pleasure, honoring their boundaries, and being witnessed in community can be deeply supportive as they continue healing.

    You are always encouraged to move at the speed of trust, honor your boundaries, and participate only in what feels like a genuine yes for your body. There is never an expectation to push past your edges.

    That said, if your experience is recent, feels largely unprocessed, or your nervous system is frequently becoming overwhelmed or dysregulated, I lovingly encourage you to first work with a licensed trauma therapist. While the Pleasure Coven can beautifully support the ongoing integration of healing, it is not designed to replace trauma therapy or crisis support.

    My deepest intention is to offer a space where your healing can be supported—not a space that asks you to carry more than feels resourcing or safe.

  • Absolutely! You can upgrade or cancel any time. You are not locked in.

    With that said, the intention is to build community so we hope you stick around!

    All of these options can be handled in your client portal on Paperbell.

    If you are having trouble figuring it out, shoot me an email and I will help you get it sorted.

    wildgrace@bubsbuselli.com

  • I hear you.

    It can be very confusing to imagine what happens in these spaces when we have never attended something like it (and even still when we have)

    I would be honored to talk with you through any fears, hesitations, or even excitement you may be feeling.

    I know it can be really hard to schedule that call but I mean it, I am here for you!

    Let’s talk!

    wildgrace@bubsbuselli.com